The Courtyard

Silence slunk like a black cat through the grates, inking the walls with its shadow as it went. It was early yet, too early even for the pilgrims that had arrived seeking solace and a blessing. Beyond the dim pool of a courtyard, etched in wet, reached the sacred tree. Bare and arthritic.

How could a god reside in such profanity? That was the way of the tree. Unremarkable to the uninitiated and sometimes even to the initiate. But the myth held. Those who had seen beyond its withered husk of a disguise, barren, leafless, knew. This was no ordinary tree. It held power. The black cat knew and it circumambulated the perimeter, sly and stalking, keeping one slit eye on the tree, the other like a razor to the throat of naysayers. Those who blasphemed the sacred one would disappear, silently devoured by shadows. The tree was not the only one who was not what it appeared, for gods do not usually stand alone and this was no exception.

The mop man appeared then. A bamboo broom under one crimson-clad arm and a bowl of milk in the opposite hand. The milk was yellow and spiced with saffron. He set it down next to a pillar on the inside of the courtyard and out of the rain that misted gently onto the ground from the open sky in the center. Cat eyed him, flicking his damp tail back and forth. The mop man had been a caretaker of the tree for half a century. His back was hunched and the skin on his hands thick and creased like that of a rhinoceros. He ignored cat’s upturned nose and narrowed eyes and began sweeping the leaves from the stone floor beginning in the Eastern corner and working toward West mimicking the direction of the sun’s trajectory of light.

The milk tasted of yak, dense and tangy, not sweet like the cream he got on festival days. But Cat didn’t care. He had been around long enough to know that eventually, he would taste cream again. Immortality had that effect on a person, feline or not.

BFFs

The day you left I finished the last of the earl gray you had given me. It had barely lasted two weeks. Maybe I had been in a rush to drink it all, to have you leave so that I could move on. Not in a lovesick way, or maybe we do love our best friends as intensely as our lover. What do I know about love? It’s not a strength of mine. But I do miss you. It’s the knowing that makes the missing. No one really talks much about the depth of true friendships anymore. It’s seems to have been relegated to those shameful subject matters we shove to the unconscious realms of our mind. Those dark places that seem socially unacceptable to talk about. In a way it feels like death, not of the friendship itself, but rather an ending of stretch of time we had together. And in the midst of it remains a sparkling hope for future chapters and adventures. When we said goodbye for now I didn’t give you a going away gift. That was another way I refused to acknowledge the oversized Ryder truck parked in your driveway. So, I ate tacos and drank my Mexican coke and smiled and said “I’ll see you in April.” And that was that. I’ll see you in April. Love you.

The Sacred Cows of India

Have you ever heard the expression “holy cow!”? Ever wondered where it came from, or why it’s used? Does it even have anything to do with yoga? It actually doesn’t, and it didn’t come from India. It’s an American expression that was popularized by baseball broadcasters, most notably Harry Caray. But, that doesn’t mean that cows aren’t holy or that each time I hear the expression “holy cow!” I don’t automatically think of the garland-laden cows of India. In fact, cows are especially holy in India where they hold a sacred place in Hindu religion. There are many reasons why cows are holy to Hindus. The main one is that since cows produce milk, and most of India is vegetarian, dairy products play an enormous role in Indian diet and culinary culture. Because of this, cows are symbolically viewed as givers of life, and as maternal figures. Cows are considered the embodiment of the Divine mother and Gopala, Krishna’s infant form.

If you want to know more, read the full article I wrote for Yogapedia.com in the link below. Yogapedia.com

Image of cow in Varanasi India by Kumarpandeysantosh

 

Speak Up, Speak Out. Don’t Stay Silent.

This January, I enrolled in a year-long course focusing on the five precepts of Buddhism at my local Zen Center. In a nutshell, the precepts are, non-harming, right speech, not stealing, abstaining from sexual misconduct and intoxicants. Last week we spent quite a bit of time discussing right speech and what that meant. In the context of the precepts right speech is the same as telling the truth or, not lying, depending on how you want to frame it. One point we addressed was silence. When do we stay silent and in what situations is choosing to be silent the same as lying? There’s a famous quote by Martin Luther King in which he says “there comes a time when silence is betrayal.” I think this is an appropriate conversation for this particular moment in history. Right speech involves not only abstaining from lies, fibs, and un-truths but also speaking up against injustice. Keeping silent about something that violates any of the precepts is karmically the same as sharing complicity in the action.

But what about those situations when being silence is better than uttering hurtful words? That is right speech too. Read my other article on when silence is the right choice here: When Should I Stay Silent?

Source: Yogapedia.com

Book Math According to Stephen King

I just finished listening to an interview with Stephen King by Neil Gaiman which he talks about how he sits down in the morning at about 8:20am and writes 1,200 words or so till noon. During that time he loses himself in the work, becoming completely immersed in the act of creation. Anecdotally he mentions that if you were to write 300 words a day by the end of one year you’d have a manuscript. What’s the math? 300×365=109,500 words. If I were to write 1,200 words per day, that’s an hour for me usually, then that’s roughly 91 days or 3 months. And if I did that ever day, that would be 4 books in a year. Translated to colloquial speak it means, “Holy shit this is doable, I just need to sit my ass in the chair and turn off Instagram!” Before writing the bestseller Carrie, Stephen King lived in a trailer home and worked as an English teacher in rural Maine. 

Other inspiring facts about King: Before writing the bestseller Carrie, Stephen King lived in a trailer home and worked as an English teacher in rural Maine making barely enough to support his family. Even once he became the horror icon that he is today, he still hates prolonged fancy dinners in NYC where people order french press coffee at the end of a meal. He says he’d rather go to Waffle House. Lastly, he has a pet African spurred tortoise the size of a Mini Cooper. It lives at his house in Florida and eats mainly carrots and lettuce.